For a limited time, get FREE EBOOK copies of Lost and Found Lovers and The Lost Love Chronicles with the purchase of a one hour consultation with Dr. Kalish. (Total Value over $35!)
Dr. Kalish has many years of experience as a university psychology professor, researcher, author, and guest speaker, including providing consultations to men and women who have had a lost love situation touch their lives. She has talked with people who are dealing with a wide range of lost love issues: reunited couples dealing with angry children; couples caught between their reunions and their marriages; people who are devastated by a reunion breakup; betrayed spouses who would like to understand why lost love issues affected their marriages; and newly reconnected lost lovers for whom the outcome is still unknown.
Dr. Kalish is a psychology professor and researcher. She does not reunite couples, find lost people, or tell anyone to leave a marriage. She is sensitive to the confusion, self-blame, sadness, and anger of men and women whose marriages have been destroyed by their spouses rekindling old flames. She has been able to bring some comfort to these family members by explaining the phenomenon of lost loves.
HOW TO ORDER A CONSULTATION
A personal conversation with Dr. Kalish can be scheduled as a telephone (USA only) or email consultation, in one hour sessions. If you would like to schedule a consultation, click here to fill out an online request. Dr. Kalish will contact you with fee information and further details to schedule your appointment, using the email address you give when you fill out the online form.
***Phone consultations are available to U.S. residents only. International consultations must be done via email.
These consultations are for your information only. They are not psychotherapy. Your relationships with your parents and your lifelong traumas will not be explored, nor will you focus on personality change. Your lost love issues will be discussed in the contexts of your adolescent romance and your current circumstances. Dr. Kalish will share her insights from her years of working with men and women in lost love reunions.
All information that you provide will be strictly confidential, in accordance with the ethical guidelines of the American Psychological Association, of which Nancy Kalish, Ph.D. is a longstanding and active member.
Taking this step, talking to you, has made me feel like I have a least a modicum of control over this how I handle this situation — this is the first morning in a long time that I’ve not woken up tired.
I read your email consultation several times and it is very useful. Your work for me is awesome. I have not told anyone but you, so that is why this was so important to me. I think you are wonderful and I have processed all your information. Thank your for everything, you have been a big help to me.
Just want to let you know that my consultation yesterday gave me much to think about. Your comments about first love helped me to sort out the issues, even though it is very painful to think this through.
You are so unique in your knowledge of all this, and talking with you feels like talking with a friend you’ve known a while, that I feel better even though my situation is so painful.
I know you do much good with your understanding and research, so thank you for doing this work, and I do hope you will continue with all of it.
Thank you so much. I just read your response for my email consultation and it was incredibly helpful. I am so glad that I contacted you; I feel like I finally have the explanation I’ve been looking for all these years. I knew it was like some sort of an addiction, but I wasn’t able to mentally put all the pieces together. You have provided me with exactly the understanding and tools I need to break the addiction, work on healing myself, and move forward. You have been a tremendous help. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Thank you very much for your insights today! You have already made a difference for me. I was quite nervous talking with you and glossed over some areas and probably didn’t depict myself in the best light or my true feelings. Nevertheless you brought me some peace.
Thanks again no wonder all the letters rave about you!
Somehow I knew telling someone with no preconceptions the whole story as honestly as I could was the only way to find out if I failed her or if she was making everyone nuts. I honestly lost perspective. Thank you for helping me regain some scrap of it. I feel stronger now than I have since it started last spring. Something I can only attribute to your analysis & recommendation. Thank you Doctor, you were more right than you know, and your help may have saved my life, at the very least it helped rid me of a lot of pointless suffering.
I love your book and it was a great consultation; With me being in a love situation newly revived, you helped me accept that the intensity is “normal” and that planning a future at 61 and 65 is not senility. For the first time, I am comfortable with what is happening to me.
Dr. Kalish, you have helped me tremendously — and I’m not just saying that. Since I talked with you, I don’t think about my old love constantly.I don’t have the urge to call him just to get a response (you know, the “any response is better than none” dilemma).
I am very grateful to you. I am hoping that anyone who feels the strong need to post on the Boards, will seek out a consultation with you, because it may make a huge difference in their reconnection.
Hello Dr. Kalish. Just wanted to let you know that I finally have an update concerning my lost love — we are married!!! I want to thank you so much for your book, the consultation, and the web site. You have been a part of this journey almost from the beginning.
Thank you for your help……….simply, the knowledge from the beginning, before I even thought I would see her again, that it was possible for people to reconnect. That I was not crazy, and that this phenomenon of missing someone from long ago is common. Thanks again!


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