Books & More

Books & More

Dr. Nancy Kalish has written two books about rekindled romances, based on her international survey of several thousand participants spanning 12 years. Both books are available in several formats.

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Let’s Talk Again A Month From Now Affair Partners: Why “No Contact” Doesn’t Work and Makes Things Worse

Let’s Talk Again A Month From Now Affair Partners: Why “No Contact” Doesn’t Work and Makes Things Worse

No Contact is not my term or idea. I know it doesn’t work. Agree to a 1 month time out and that may last about 2 weeks. An open-ended NC may end even sooner.

Extramarital Affairs in the New Millennium

Extramarital Affairs in the New Millennium

Whenever new media are invented, there are those who foresee the end of civilization and morality as we knew it. Television would be the end of reading; videogames would corrupt our youth; the Internet is just a portal to pornography and predators.

Seniors Who Reunite With Old Flames

Seniors Who Reunite With Old Flames

Websites like Facebook.com and Classmates.com make it seem like rekindled romances are a relatively new phenomenon. In fact, such reunions have been happening since long before the internet arrived.

Real Rekindled Romances vs. Reel Reunions

Real Rekindled Romances vs. Reel Reunions

Could films in particular influence how people evaluate the wisdom of looking up lost loves? What I discovered was intriguing.

Famous Couples

Famous Couples

Which celebrities and other famous people have made the connection with their own Lost Loves?

7 Tips For Coping With an Unsuccessful Reunion

7 Tips For Coping With an Unsuccessful Reunion

Your reunion ended, and you are brokenhearted. Will you ever get over this pain? Here are some suggestions and information that might help you.

Take the Online Quiz

Take the Online Quiz

What do you really know about rekindled romance? Take this online quiz to learn how your stereotypes compare to Dr. Kalish’s research findings.

Are Men Romantic?

Are Men Romantic?

We too often define “romantic” in women’s terms — the flowers and cards, saving items and putting them in a scrapbook or listening to romantic songs all day long.

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Dr. Kalish on "Good Morning America" (9/22/09)
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