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Knowledge Doesn’t Always Set You Free
Thoughts and feelings don’t always match up. Feelings are healed when new feelings take their place. That is, nothing can take away the pain except acceptance and a lot of time to heal.
A Therapist Suggests “Getting Closure”
A married man wanted “closure” from his lost love obsessions and went to a therapist for help. He was not interested in renewing a relationship, just in trying to get over it. Was his therapist right to tell him to contact her?
Person or Place?
How much of the desire for the former sweetheart is desire for the whole package — youthful excitement and hormones, families, familiar places, the zeitgeist of those years?
Let’s Talk Again A Month From Now Affair Partners: Why “No Contact” Doesn’t Work and Makes Things Worse
No Contact is not my term or idea. I know it doesn’t work. Agree to a 1 month time out and that may last about 2 weeks. An open-ended NC may end even sooner.
Seniors Who Reunite With Old Flames
Websites like Facebook.com and Classmates.com make it seem like rekindled romances are a relatively new phenomenon. In fact, such reunions have been happening since long before the internet arrived.
Famous & Noteworthy Couples
Which celebrities and other famous people have made the connection with their own Lost Loves?
Take the Online Quiz
What do you really know about rekindled romance? Take this online quiz to learn how your stereotypes compare to Dr. Kalish’s research findings.
Are Men Romantic?
We too often define “romantic” in women’s terms — the flowers and cards, saving items and putting them in a scrapbook or listening to romantic songs all day long.